I voted More time with girlfriends / own passions or hobbies but it wouldn't be time with girlfriends it would be own hobbies because they also tend to give me alone time. I thought about sleep because definitely lacking sleep post baby - but actually thinking about it I don't find lack of sleep a hindrance to sex because I find sex helps to wind down and get some good sleep - so is extremely rare that I would feel too tired because I know I always sleep better after.