Nessie - I am so sorry to hear about Daniel. I too got told that a cord accident is rare but I have heard too many stories. I am also sorry to hear about your brother in-law. My thoughts are with him and his family. If you think it is too soon to attend that is fine and I'm sure your friends will understand. We all grieve differently but I didn't leave the house for a very long time. It was like I didn't want the world to move forward when we couldn't without Cooper. Take care of yourself