Hi Susannah
I'm sorry to hear your sad news .
It can be hard to be strong at this time, to keep a happy face around your little girl. My 3 year old found me crying in the loo a few times as I didn't want to let my kids see me upset as they were already going through seperation anxiety from me being in and out of hospital. So my heart goes out to you and your family at this time.
Try and have some me time and look after you. Take every day hour by hour.
If you want to private message me.
Take care
Chris