No, I haven't seen any counsellor. I was offered a number of times while I was in hospital after the car accident for Emily, but I guess I just wasn't in the mood to listen and I thought (I have proven myself wrong) that I could get on with it by myself. At the moment, DF is trying to get me to see one as I won't speak to him about anything. I want to talk to him, I want to see a counsellor, but again there's something telling me I don't.
Thankyou baeta. xoxo
So sorry to hear of your losses, it must be so hard to lose 2 so close together and at similar gestation
Please dont blame yourself. Be kind to yourself. And take your time to grieve, its very important. Take it from me, who didnt do it proparly and paid for it later on down the track.
Grief counselling would be a good idea if you can get access to it.
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