I can not beleive the way you were treated. That is unbeleivable and i am so sorry you had to go through that and be treated that way.

I can sort of relate to it in a small way. When we had our little girl we lost at 19wks 5 days (in september 2005), we got a letter saying they had her prints for us and to ring to arrange a time to pick them up. The day we had her, we requested she be cremated and her ashes buried with all the other babies from that month and were told it would be a couple of weeks before they did it and they would contact us so we could attend the ceremony of them going in the rose garden. I rang about the prints and asked if we had a date yet for the cremation/ceremony, i was told to hang on a minute and the lady came back on the phone and said "Yes, last thursday". I was crushed and it took away my way of proper closure. I also wasnt offered any grief counselling, which proved to not be good for me. But i am lucky in the fact that i got her prints.

What you went through is terrible.

I am happy to hear you are pregnant again and i hope it goes well for you. I am also happy to hear they are giving you the best of care.

I had another baby 14 mths after my late loss and it went well. I have just had another one since then too and that went well too. Both times i got the best of care and alot of compassion when i felt anxious about things. Its good to hear you are getting the same, because that is what you deserve.

Thankyou for sharing your story.