I've had 3 now & DH still won't get up through the night. If he's getting ready for work & DS wakes up he will get him & bring him in to me.
Actually the last couple of weeks I have been completely ratsh*t & not waking to DS as quickly as I normally would. I think twice now DH has woken before me & gone to get him. Only to bring him to me though.
He's never been like that before. With DD1 if we woke him up when he had to work the next day all hell would break loose. But he has a boy now & is starting to grow up.
He's still NEVER changed a nappy on the 2 little ones though. Probably 2 on DD1.
Once she gets older Shel might be willing to do more? I know how sad this is, but I keep my expectations low. That way if DH does do something to help me out, I'm blown away!

I know how this is gonna sound, but she sounds like the typical bloke/dad/mum #2 to me iykwim. (I hope that came out the way it was meant to!)