Induction and C/S aren't always bad

[PollyA]

I am so sorry for your loss Kateo.
And thank you for sharing.
I have been part of the decision making teams
To intervene on the high risk pregnancy and get it right you unfortunately have to intervene sometimes when things would have been ok. The science is far far from perfect. BUT there is science. Guidelines like inducing before 42 weeks are actually evidenced based. The best evidence we can get. But it's not perfect. And some people will be fine... And some won't. You just can't tell which ones are which.

Having been there to support women just like you give birth to their beautiful sleeping angels I can no longer participate actively in this forum due to comments about intervention .
It affects you deeply and forever when you are involved in baby loss.
Most times doctors, midwives, mums, dads are just trying to get it right. Truly and really, trying to avoid the immense heartache and pain that you have suffered.

Hugest hugs to you. I carry you with me having "met" you on this forum and read your beautiful poetry. I carry you with me in mind with the women I have cared for in real life, I am sure this makes me a little more likely to suggest induction in certain situations. And I think that's ok.

Xx