I know at my hospital they recommend that no one else besides mum holds the baby, if you want to hold the baby you have to just kinda hug mum & bub together. While I never followed these guidelines, maybe that's an idea for you?
Oh and in regards to the BF - I found saying "oh are you hungry? Is it time for a feed?" to my son was enough to send a few men out for a smoke! I didn't care but wanted to warn anyone so they could leave if they wanted without it being a big deal. They ones who stayed just carried on the conversation, without eye contact
Last edited by ~Hestia~; December 28th, 2010 at 01:01 PM.
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