Is it a bit much to write post-birth guidelines for visitors?

[TeniBear]

Feel free to argue with me if you want, after my last post I feel better - kinda like I've just yelled at all the people I anticipate having problems with

I know Scott will end up being with me a great chunk of the time, so he should be able to warn visitors of what we want/don't want. I'm just a touch afraid of the times he's not going to be there. If someone I don't want to see visits out of hours, I can simply pretend I'm asleep when the midwife comes to tell me (and maybe I might "accidentally" tell one or two people the wrong times for visitors )

Tinks, just saw your post - I'm not offended at all by anything anyone's said, I just thought maybe I'd been misunderstood myself so got a little cranky As for the being assertive here thing, that's kinda what I'm talking about. I can write/type it all, but there's no way I'd say any of this out loud to people! You should see me when I need to ask for help with something

ETA - Nae, I really hope I can "grow a set" as well, I just don't expect it's going to happen in those first few days/weeks while I'm still physically and mentally exhausted

Ahhh, and thanks everyone who's replied, whether positively or negatively - I do appreciate your opinions, even when you're telling me I'm a silly little poohead