1) And ANYONE suggesting I could have done better, even with hindsight or the next time around, should be bound and gagged before I attack them.


2) The only way I could improve and give birth is by not telling DH I'm pregnant and/or in labour.

3) The system is stuffed, there is no hope for any woman who enters therein. Which is why I am pushing freebirth being a more acceptable alternative to torture.
1) very strong words......but refer to points 2 and 3...You say you couldnt do better then point out two ways you have identified how you could??? And then contiuned to say that you would attck someone for pointing them out....... Lucky that these forums give us all a chance to say what we feel in a SAFE and RESPECTFUL environment!

2) option 1 for a better birth....

3) option 2 for a better birth.....

Nelle... i too have had a none planned freebirth...

I feel that freebirth is NOT something that people should discuss lightly and infact advocate it without experiencing