TBH, DD is 16mo and I still find it hard to say I gave birth. I have alot of issues over Hannah's delivery.
But, she would have died if she'd stayed in any longer. I had no choice.

I think one day I will look back and say I gave birth, but not today.

I believe it IS birth and you shouldn't be made to feel any other way. You DID birth Miss A.

Sorry to be a downer on the thread, but I had to be honest.

Much love!