Touche!

You are what a step mum should be. There are so many dodgy mothers out there doing what your step-son's mother is doing. Which is why the odd times I needed a hand when I was single, I asked my ex to buy her clothes or shoes, not give me cash. That way there was proof it was for her.

I wish my ex's partner showed more affection towards my daughter. She says she loves her dearly, but her actions show otherwise.

I'm biding my time, and knowing that sooner enough, my DD will understand that it is me and her step-dad that give her the wonderful life she has and that i have never prevented her dad having more custody, he just chooses to live too far away.

I'm encouraged to hear that you son (and i'll call him that, as I'm sure you count him as your son) understands and recognises your love for him.

My own step-mum is a b**ch. Wont come to anything to do with myself or my brothers, but expects our kids to call her nanna. But that's another whole kettle of fish.

Thanks dhsla.. i appreciate your insight!