that's very frustrating. has he been checked for a disorder or depression? sounds like he could have something. His inability to do these simple life things are a worry.
I don't understand how a parent would have such disregard for a child's well being after being told by many.

I have a craft lover too so I know how much work it is and when my 3 all want to do different stuff it gets overwhelming lol.

She is lucky she has such a caring, giving mother