"she was standing above one of the carers with tears on her face , and they werent paying much attention. ..until they saw me come in ofcourse"

Yep Enigma I know exactly what you mean - my DD goes to childcare a couple of days a week and there have been times when I've entered the room and she is unhappy, with no one attending to her. Its heartbreaking! Does she have a comforter that she can take with her to care, like a blankie or special toy? When I worked in childcare we had a young boy about the same age as Aneta start, and he couldnt speak english either. The boss actually buddied an extra carer up with him to focus on him solely, to help him settle in. Starting care alone is hard enough. Maybe the center can do something similar for Aneta? The first few times his parents dropped him off was so upsetting for him and both his parents were in tears too, but before you knew it he was waving goodbye to mum and dad, and loving it! I'm sure Aneta will be the same, its so hard, but you are right, if you want her to start learning english then this is the perfect opportunity. Good luck.