Hi Peachy!

Sorry to hear you're in a pickle with your DP :hugs:

Danni is right, you really need to sit DP down and have a good chat. Many people have the misconception that they'll fall pregnant straight away. Have a good look around these forums and you'll see that couldn't be further from the truth for a lot of women! There is a slim chance of falling pregnant each cycle and for many couples it will take longer than a year. In fact, up to a year of trying is considered normal!

Regarding finances, my DH and I were in the same boat. I was actually the one that was more hesitant about our money situation than he was! LOL In the end I said stuff it, if we wait until we're financially secure we'll NEVER have babies! So I threw away my pills and hey presto, I was pregnant a few months later! LOL And we couldn't be happier. Sure we'll have to cut back on luxuries. But to us, NOTHING is more important than having a family.

As a wise woman said on BB, babies can be as cheap or as expensive as you like. You'll always find a way to get by. Thousands of couples do every day so why should you be any different. Tell your DP you can make it work!

I hope to see you in the TTC threads very soon! All the best!

Love
Goldilocks
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