I just wanted to send you a
and to let you know that a couple of years ago my DP was the same for many months too. Even to the point of sometimes randomly using condoms... it was very confusing and disappointing. I decided not too make a fuss about it because I knew that if I pressured him he would resist altogether. And he came around, faster than I thought he would actually. And now we've been trying for 18 months and it's taking forever to happen anyway!
They're strange creatures DC... and perhaps behave quite unconsciously when responding to our feelings sometimes.
You might be right that he is not ready... but that doesn't mean he won't be soon.
Hang in there chick.