Michelle - ROFL... you made me laugh 'legs in the air after' hehe i have done that a few times!!
Aww *hugs* Ourlux.... don't chart or temp or do anything like that as that can take alot of energy out of you and put stress on yourself that you don't need. I'm not charting or temping at all. i refuse to. Well, we've only just started ttc#1 the last 3weeks but what i'm saying is that don't put added pressure on yourself when you don't need to.
Like the other girls said, try and only dtd when you are in the mood for it, not when your CM says you should. i don't even look at my CM. I am kinda aware of it but i don't read into it cos to be honest i have no idea if it's DH's leftovers or if it's actual ewcm! (i think i get the watery stuff anyway like you said).
Perhaps a glass of wine, and a cuddle on the couch watching your fav movie might help? like one of the girls said. just keep talking to each other. this afternoon i said to DH are you happy with how often we've been dtd? and he said yup enjoying it. so left it at that. but as soon as one of us feels pressured or not enjoying it for whatever reason or feels robotic we are going to tell the other person. and we'll do what works for us. i dont want to pressure DH at all i told him.
DH and i are newlyweds lol.. hence why we've been dtd almost every night the last week but trust me, thats' rare!!! **and even if you do conceive by doing it 'robotic' as you said, then does it matter? its not a selfish act, its a generous act wanting to bring a new life into this world, someone you will love and care for... you want it badly enough so there is nothing wrong with that iykwim
be kind to yourself :hugs:
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