Ourlux you've already come to the decision that I was going to suggest. We've been TTC since June 2005 which is a big change from my previous pregnancies. I've been in various stages of obsession and was really just becoming miserable. I'm at the stage where now all I chart is CD1 - that's it. I still have my moments of spitting on the maybe baby or using a OPK but I had to stop temping and planning dtd as it was becoming a job not a joyous experience.