Thanks ladies...

Yeah i feel a strain is beginning on my end of the relationship. I feel like i am carrying the burden of worrying about it while my dh just has to provide the sperm - in a way. Yesterday i told him my cm was watery and it was a crucial time to dtd, he had worked a 14 hour day and was exhausted. I got upset that he wasn't putting ttc ahead of his needs - i equated this to it mustn't be important enough to him which i know is stupid, and he got upset with me because i ignored how tired and unwell he felt = crappy night for both of us.

Now i'm CD 13 and definately have fertile cm i'm stressing because i think we'll miss out this once as i can't see either of us being in the mood today or tomorrow and i just feel crappy about that.