Tarkine, I have no doubt you guys will make it with such a positive attitude, it is all that has kept us going till now, you just have to keep pushing forwards and I can reassure you that neither of us regret our decision to use DS it was just what we had to do and it makes DD even more appreciated than a baby we would have conceived naturally,We are a much stronger couple as a result of this journey as nobody else in our lives can truely appreciate what we've been through (with a major exception of you amazing couples) we have decided just to keep heading through life and deal with the things that pop up as best we can.