Hi elephant,

Sorry to hear about your pain I suffer from this but not to that extent.

I'm not sure how to word this appropriately, but I don't have much pain provided he is gentle and doesn't enter completely. My DP is also very understanding and is aware of my limits. He gets carried away sometimes however a sharp yelp from me usually makes him back off, so to speak.

It was trial and error for a while but we found certain positions that lessened the pain, and of course other activities as a substitute.

I'm not sure if it's a symptom of endo but I have a low sex drive, and the prospect of painful sex is a bit of a turn off to say the least. The ability to look forward to and enjoy making love with DP would be wonderful!

Hopefully the ladies here may be able to help you a bit more