Desist, thanks for your reply I do undertstand what you mean about not entering completely etc we have tried that but it still hurts! We have tried other positions and some do hurt more than others and we are yet to find one that we can do without me having to say stop it hurts too much.
I dont think me or my DP can relax enough anyway he always worries he will hurt me so he gets on edge and so am I cos Im worried about the pain so we both find it a very awkward experience!

I too have a very low sex drive and who wouldnt when you think of the prospect of painful sex. I don't think I am every relaxed because I am always worried it will be painful!

I hope you and I can one day have the joy of making love pain free! Whats that like again? he he he!

Whats your endo like and are you being treated with for your endo?