We dtd when all the kids are asleep (unless I fall asleep beforehand and that's pretty common LOL)

Dd3 wakes up around midnight and comes into our bed, so that ends any action because she sleeps basically on top of me most nights.

The only time we dtd when the kids are awake is when ds2 is chatting in his cot before he falls asleep and thats it LOL

We do have 5 kids though so its a bit harder I guess! I was less touchy feely when I was breastfeeding - I'm not now so that over touched feeling has gone away