We basically rarely do it, maybe once a month if we are lucky.

I only feel like any form of intimacy a few days a month ( pre ovulation time) otherwise I am the same as Joeve- can't even bare the cat near me.

We also still have residual issues from ttc for so long, DH resented the ' we have to have sex now' scenarios and I have posted before on his low libido. So I think things are still not happening for us.

A few other issues ( as if we need more) are that DH 'prefers' morning action even though I have told him beggars can't be choosers, most of the time DD is present in bed or we are in the spare room, we have done it once or twice while she was asleep beside us. The to thing I think has a bearing is our age- I'm tired from big feeds and we both really like reading before going to sleep!!!!!!

So I don't have any answers, but you are definitely not a freak. Every couple has to do what works for them and in lieu of actual sex I just force myself to cuddle/ hold hands/kiss DH even if I don't feel like it as that gives him the intimacy he needs a lot of the time ( he's much more naturally affectionate than I am).

I'm just grateful we aren't trying to conceive still!