At the moment we hardly do it. I feel like a freak too but for a different reason..seems as though I am always up for it but DP isnt. I feel like that level of intimacy is important, but not everything in a relationship and most of the time DP is too tired or wants to do it during the day which is very hard with a 4yo! And if I go too long without it, I end up being angry and basically a hard person to live with
After the birth of my son I wasnt really up for being touched either, too a long time for me to heal up after ds birth! Seems normal