Tam, you've come to the right place. I haven't given up my weight yet either. Too embarrassed, but one day, i might.

Maybe you could take your cards out of your purse, so that you don't have the temptation to use them, just keep them at home, or open up an account that you don't have card access to, transfer all your money into it each week, but transfer anything back to your normal account if you have any expenses that need to be paid. Get rid of the means, and the temptation will gradually fade.....it's an option anyway.

Great to have you here...xxx