Trill, I thought all three were weird because they were actually trying to use a book or ideology to parent a child.

Anyway, I don't judge other parents, but I do feel that many do things because they think they have to and will even follow advice that conflicts with their instincts for this reason. So I like to say it's ok, you have other options and if it feels wrong, maybe it is...
I don't have experience beyond one child yet, but I doubt very much that I'll parent all my kids exactly the same way. How would that work?