Lady_neon that's so great you've found a supportive go. So far the ones I've seen when pg with hb babies they were good but I've heard some horror stories! I to want to help lose the stigma... Tbh I don't even UNDERSTAND why its there grrr It's not that I don't see that hospitals are necessary sometimes but I just have this passion for educating women on what's normal natural & wonderful about pg & birth, because the fear in not knowing is so often half the problem which lends to doing what ever the 'learned on' says! Sorry I guess right now I'm probably telling those who already know haha