Hey all thankyou so much for the advise alot has helped.

It is so hard cause i grew up with 1 set of grandparents that would give us anything and do anything for us. And then the other side doesnt barelly want to know us. So i feel in my situation i feel overpowered like its her child not ours. and im worried that it will be to much for me when bub is born. And i want both grandparents to be equally loved not by who has more money. 1 big thing was we moved into fiance parents to save money. And bam unexspected pregnancy and been really sick though the whole thing so havent been working. So as soon as i can i want to start working again to move out.
The one thing that is getting me though is my parents taught me to be very independant and my fiance mother does absolutly everything for him cause him being a only child. (so they are pretty close). So i feel i cant talk to him about it.


But i have come to a conclussion yes it is there house. But they did say we could use the spare room as the baby room. So i have went and brought just a few little knick knacks for the wall. Until i get the other things done.
Dont get me wrong i love her to death and she never had a daughter and it is her only grandchild. I just want our daughter to grow up to know she can get things to what we can afford.