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That is terrible that you get these opinions, it is no one elses business. What I find interesting is that 20-30 years ago it was common to be married at 20 and bubs soon after. Why should it matter to others when you and your partner decide to have bubs. Princess confused I would ask your MIL how old she was when she was married/pregnant.
It is frustrating isn't it?!? When I told my family that I was pg they all freaked out and thought I was too young and had so much more to do in life etc etc (don't get me wrong they were happy after it sunk in but their initial reaction made me feel crappy). They realised that even if I was 40 they would still think I was too young... I have always been the 'baby' of the family.
When we told everyone... they all said "So, it was an accident wasn't it?". It was an accident but we were planning on starting a family but not for another 6 months as we were getting married. We were over the moon when we found out that I was pg and have never looked back.
Why are people so nosy, inconsiderate and well sometimes just plain rude!!
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