Thanks all I'm glad I'm not the only one! Had a m/c scared I wrote about in "Scared" thread in First Trimester forum (don't know how to link sorry). I've told a few people that the next two weeks are going to be critical on whether bubz survives or not and have mostly gotten a "maybe it will be for the best" (if i do m/c) or a "well you are young its not like you can't have others later" (with LATER being emphasized).

I've had it up to here with all of them, I'm not telling them anything and barely going to talk to them at the moment I don't need the extra stress and distress. Just goes to show I should of stuck to my original plan and not told anyone other than DP before 12 weeks...

Arg i's so infuriating!