Hey, my situation was similar: my DH and I had only been together about 3 months then: whoops! Along came our DD. That was 12 years ago... and we've since had 2 planned little boys. There is a huge gap and a lot of people think my first child was from a previous marriage I just let it go.... the gap was because I chose to return to study. Anyhow I just wanted to say that despite these unlikely circumstances our family has thrived ....oh and it was a lot easier being pregnant young (physically) so that's a huge positive