I had this judgement when I was pg with Joshua. I was 20...he was planned, but happened faster than expected. He is no less loved or cared for than if it had been a year later though. To be honest, I'm glad that I was younger in a lot of respects cos now in a lot of ways he's my little buddy (ok, not so little, he's now as tall as me!). We hang out and laugh and tease each other and I'm still young enough for him to feel connections and know that I do understand how he feels about some things.

I would try to ignore these small minded, judgemental people and enjoy your little bubba growing in your belly