I really like that: "I have 3 pleasant surprises and 1 planned. Doesn't matter which is which cause they are all loved just the same." that is an awsome way to look at it. I know it's abit late but congratulations for all your pgs!! :-)

I haven't spoken to any of them about it i've been actively avoiding the subject with them I think it's starting to sink in that I'm not impressed although they still don't seem to really care lol.