Hi everyone,

I've decided I'm going to go and see our other counsellor whose treating my DH for GAD and get my head around the issues involved with this. If I have knowledge the fear will dissipate. And I think this is the true problem, that it took DH so long to come around to the idea of having children using DI (roughly 5 years) that I am looking for any problem that will make him drop out again, despite the fact that he has told me over and over again that this is no longer an issue.

I think the IVF counsellor, bad as she is, has been helpful in that she has brought this fear to the surface. No way am I going to let her handle any of this - I haven't seen her since the last time I vented on here - but I think I do need to do something about my fears. And the other counsellor is one of the good guys.

Unfortunately we still have to tick off our group session at the clinic. As I see it, we have 2 options. If she is any good, we see the IVF counsellor in the city that our SD is using and bypass this one. The other option is that we go to her, manage her, and stick to the DI issues. I have already warned our SD about how bad she is. I'll let you know how it goes.

SuziQ - you always manage to put things in perspective - thank you.

Lulu - good luck with everything, thanks again.