Alice- sorry you are having a bad time- my theory with HPTs is- only POAS if there has been something to suggest you could get a bfp- ie implantation spotting, really sore boobs, past AF due date etc. Only because- if the hormones aren't strong enough to give symptoms yet, they won't be strong enough to give a bfp .

This is purely based on my 2 past experiences, where i only got bfps after some signs of pregnancy first. So- DON'T do it yet, you are only a few days post transfer aren't you?? I would guarentee a bfn if you did it now and that would depress you more. I was getting bfns for a week after big boobs/implantation spotting with my first pregnancy, so it won't mean anything to get a bfn at this stage except stress you out.

Weight has nothing to do with it if you have only dropped a size, whats your BMI? If you still get periods, you can't be too skinny.

I think the sleeplessness is taking its toll hun, I would be exactly the same, (I didn't even sleep a wink the night before my first scan!! )I have a long history with insomnia, it is hell. I used to drink herbal teas for sleep but I really can't suggest herbs at this stage I guess, its so difficult when you can't take anything.

What about a relaxation massage, or could you ring your acupuncturist? I'm sure they treat insomnia.

I am so anxious for you too hun, just take it one day at a time, as you said to someone recently (?THopes) at this stage there is no way of knowing which way it is going to go. Just a question (sorry if TMI or you don't want to answer) did you fall asleep after DTD? An orgasm always works for me (sorry!!)

PS Luna- thinking of you xx