Lyn - big hugs
what can I say but tell him not all kids are little terrors and even little terrors are lovable most of time - to their parents,nanas,pops and aunties -now Uncles they can take a bit longer to come to the party. Once Dad sets his eyes on his prize -they are a little darlin' thru and thru

It is part of the plan - kids enrich our lives and we have take the 'job lot' in deciding to include them in our lives -*sigh* -given the chance. I too often wondered the same question before we adopted.

Give him time the whole infertility thing probably gets him down too.
Thinking of you - note we are all very wise about kids before we have any and think when we have our own we will have all the answers to behaviour problems but different story when your earth angel comes along.