Ryn i feel so sorry for you, and just reading through this thread, when my dp finally gets home from work i will give him the biggest hug and say thankyou for everything he does around here.
Since dp and i got together i have had alot of health problems where i am passing out up to 10+ times per week and he has helped me through all of that, plus 3 pregnancies, he does most of the housework without complaint, he cooks and gets up with the kids on a morning when i've had a bad night.
He has also started up his own business, which although was really tough in the beginning, is now starting to pay off for all of the hard work he has put into it
And for the past 6 months, he has slept on the couch because i have sciatica in both hips and can't get comfy in bed and i toss and turn all night.

I personally think you should print off what the other ladies have written about what their husbands/partners do for them and get him to read through it, because he will find that it is him that is in the minority when it comes to household duties, and believe me, you will have enough on your hands when liebling is born without having to listen to him b!@#h about where his dinner is, when you havn't had a minute to yourself during the day to have a shower.
You are carrying his child, he should be treating you like the goddess that you are, not a free housekeeper.
I'm really sorry if i sound harsh, but he is not being fair at all