Ryn, the advice about waiting until you are both in a good mood is good advice!

Sure, your DH may become a little sulky if he doesn't like what he's hearing, but much better to do it at a time when he is actually going to hear, rather than get his back up and become defensive.

Don't think of it as spoiling a good moment, think of it as a way to ensure that there are many more good moments to come in the future.

BW