Tubal Reversals #15

**Mumof8** · June 25th, 2008, 09:18 PM

Oh that is truely wonderful darl am so happy for you, i have gooses

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Wats the differance between the blood test one and the mouth swab???
I would have thought the bllod one would have been a match then a mouth swab.

**kiya** · June 25th, 2008, 10:33 PM

thanks em.....apparently dh has been planning on doing this for awhile now, but since all this $hit has been happening he wanted to make it even more special......apparently a paternity is where they match up the same blood group......so for example if lets say the child has A+ and the father has A+, and they would select at random so many other males to compare against......it will come back as a certainty not a definate, for this they have found is no longer accurate.....a DNA looks for identical markers in a minimum number of markers.....this is when they can then say that a child belongs to this mother and this father.......a paternity however only shows a probable possibility where a DNA shows a definate probability.....so did i confuse you any......dh studied genetics......a true DNA costs over $1000 a paternity costs under $500....and one of the only ways you can get a DNA is if it is court ordered.......cheers kiya

**Mumof8** · June 26th, 2008, 03:50 PM

Mine was from a company in melb and they sent back once the test was completed a letter with lots of numbers on it and our names above each colume. Then it said on another letter that he was the father 99.999999%.

**kiya** · June 26th, 2008, 04:25 PM

yeah they can be confusing cant they........well things have all settled down now......i finally told her what to stick it......now to get back to the task at hand of having a baby :-)...cheers kiya

**Mumof8** · June 26th, 2008, 09:38 PM

Good on you darl, i so cant wait to here some more good news.
You so deserve it

**kiya** · June 27th, 2008, 07:48 AM

Im going back into see my GP so i can get the ball rolling again........It is good being able to do a lot of the stuff up here and over the phone, but of course we still need to go down and do stuff as well......i remember from the last phone call we had with them, that they will try and arrange it so most of the important things we have to do before we treatment starts is on the one day so we dont have to keep fly up and down.....we also found that it is goign to a little longer, because of the dvt and endo, but that is ok.....they are going to keep my on the oral pill even though that can cause a dvt, BUT at the same time i will be on the clexane again, so it will be thinning everything out ie lining and blood.....they said last time that in a way it is good i have the endo and going back on the clexane because i will have a nice soft smooth lining for the eggies to attach to and better my chance considering my age etc......so fingers crossed we can start.....dh now wants to have 2 put back in and always talks about it as "them" and when "they" grow up etc etc.....it is cute, but i would be happy if one just makes, 2 would be a blessing.....cheers kiya