Hello Nae Nae & Beata, I will always talk about my Son Brendan,but if the people around me don`t like it,well too bad for them.You can`t erase your childs memories,your flesh & blood that you loved with every inch of your heart & soul.I know how it might feel uncomfortable,but in my case neither me or my hubbies family offered us support when we needed it the most,& those things i will never forget either. I?m feeling a bit down today too,just getting the Chrissy shopping done for the other children makes it hard as i feel i have always foregotten Brendan.Sounds silly to some but i always buy him a small gift & place it under our tree for him,and visit the cemetary sometime during xmas day.

Nae Nae- What a wonderful suprise,to see a lovely flower in your special garden,it`s probably meant to add some cheer to your life. I truely believe in our loved ones trying to make contact with us after thet have passed. We have feather`s left around our house & car,how does anyone explain that to us?

Sending cheerful wishes your way, ladies, hope next year will bring us some happiness.