It's lovely of you to care so much Glamourcide.
Absolutely do something to remember her sons. She is a mother and she has empty arms. That pain is excruciating. When someone remembers your little one - it touches very deep inside.
Some ideas are if you sew a tiny little patch work quilt... I have one for my first daughter. It hangs in Imogen's room - it was made with so much love by a dear friend.
A rose bush - hope, faith, (there are rose bushes with these or similar names) that she can plant in her children's honour.
A simple thing is some crystals in a pouch - perhaps wih stones that correspond to December - and some rose quartz for love.
If she has a pandora bracelet - a baby charm to remember her boys.
A star - you can buy a star albiet a small one - but that is special too...
A meal with a bottle of wine and dessert...
I personally found flowers disturbing - I am not sure why - partly I think because they looked so beautiful and full of life - and then they died - like my babies did...But many people like them. (I usually love to receive flowers but after my babies died I needed to not see them..)
I'm sure you'll be inspired to do just the right thing for her.
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