I don't want to open the wounds, but... (advice?)

[Willow]

I have a pandora bracelet, but before I even had one I went and brought the angel charm on the first anniversary of my baby's EDD and wore it on a necklace to remember my angel. You could get her two of the blue bootie ones etc.

I also have a ring that I brought off a BB members website, it's silver and has tiny footprints all around it - I am going to get it engraved with dates etc when I get around to it. If you know her babies' names, that would be beautiful.

You know what though? Even a card means so, so much.

And don't worry about 'bringing it up' - I can almost guarantee it barely leaves her mind