Thank you everyone for your encouraging thoughts and words. Even though this is a trying time for my DH and I we have hope that next time there will be a better outcome. 2 years ago when my sister was 5 months pregnant she had a stillbirth due to an incompetent cervix. She was in the hospital for a week trying to save the pregnancy and we would all go up there to see her and were there when she had her son. We were able to all hold him and take photos with him. I now have my first u/s photo and his photo together in a safe place together. The doctors found her condition troubling because she had already had 2 healthy kids but she had them 16 years earlier. She got pregnant again about 4 months later and had a stitch put in and was on progestrone shots and bedrest for 4 months and had a healthy boy. I also have had 3 friends with problems. One of my friends have been trying for 7 months and is on Clomid another had her baby girl when she was in her 6th month and another had an ecpotic pregnancy. A neighbor of my sisters was due within a week wasn't feeling well went to the doctor and found out that they had lost there baby boy. He was 9lbs.
I know that next time that I get pregnant again I will definetly not take it for granted. I know that alot of women will go on to have a successful pregnancy after a m/c and I hope that we all can experience the joy and happiness that they feel.
I also feel that I had certain signs right before my m/c. The Thursday night after my DH softball game I was watching Greys Antomy and the women on there had a m/c. I was reading a book and in it a women had a m/c. After my m/c which was in my 7th week but 3 days away from being 8 weeks the number 8 popped up on the tv during a commerical. It was really weird.
Thanks again to everyone and sorry for this being soo long and for some of the misspelled words.





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