Odette - I am unfortunately in exactly the same postion as you at the moment

I found out on Tuesday at my 12 wk appt that our bub had passed away. I had no signs (except for a gut feeling that something was wrong, I so wish I had acted earlier on it ) and still had pg symptoms right up until the curette was done. I'm sure also that having no ms was a sign for me that things weren't right - I had terrible ms with my DD.

I am still very much struggling to cope with everything that has happened this week - I just wish the next few weeks would suddenly disappear so I can start to feel a bit better.

We conceived this bub on my first cycle of Clomid, so while we have had a few troubles conceiving, we have had nothing like you have been through. I'm hopeful we should conceive again fairly easily on Clomid. So I guess I can't help much with that side of things, you do have my sympathies Maybe just hold on to the knowledge that you have conceived once now - there must be a good chance that the FET will work again for you.

Anyway, I hope I haven't said the wrong thing at all, and if you want to chat I'll be around.

Nicambahar - sorry to hear you are not doing well today I know exactly how you feel. I just cry at the drop at the drop of a hat lately. I guess the only advice I can give you is to take it as it comes - that's what I'm trying to do, not very successfully I must admit I just feel like my life has changed forever.