Thanks for the replies. I definitely agree that people just say it because they have no idea what else to say, but I think it's worse now that I'm pregnant again. It's like if I take home this baby people think "See it all worked out in the end".. Don't get me wrong, I'm totally blessed and grateful to be having this baby, but it doesn't change the fact that I should have 2 and a half year old boys. My first born son's died and there will ALWAYS be a piece of my heart missing. This baby makes things better, gives me hope and brings a smile to my face, but ultimately it doesn't change what happened with Taite and Seth..

Which brings another vent.. When ever you see stories in magazines or the paper about baby death eg: Stillbirth or premature birth they always show the stories that have subsequent children, which I think sends out the wrong message to the public. It's like they try to soften the horrible reality of it by saying "But look at them now" With pictures of their subsequent living children.. Some people aren't lucky enough to have a more children after their babies die, and as I said, even having another baby doesn't change the reality that they are missing their babies that died.

*Sigh, Maybe I'm being too picky, I just had to get that out!!