I don't believe for a second that everything happens for a reason. I think that's just something some people who haven't lost a bub say when they really don't know what to say. I don't believe we would fall pregnant for the purpose of losing it. I think it's just a horribly unfair occurrence that happens for alot of us. When you think about how amazing the miracle of life really is, you can understand why things go wrong. So much has to go right for a baby to be born healthy and I guess it makes you realise how easily things can go wrong. I don't believe m/c happens because the baby is not meant to be. How can a baby dying happen for a reason. I believe every pregnancy that happens, happens with the intention of birth it just doesn't always work out I really really hate it when ppl say that it wasn't meant to be or that everything happens for a reason. It hurts alot! I do believe however that we can bring about good things from these sad situations. These occurrences can change us for the better or worse. I believe because of my experiences I feel more blessed to have my baby girl, I am more patient with her and I take pleasure in the tiniest of things more than maybe I would have had I perhaps never had a m/c.