These posts make me terribly sad. I used to think things happened for a reason but I can't now, after 5 losses - it makes no sense to me. I feel exactly the same as you, Babyluv and others. I do understand what Nae is saying to a degree, but more that it defines you as a person/mother and that you can understand and be supportive to others. I don't think I'll ever understand why I have had to endure 5 losses and countless years of ttc # 2

((hugs))