Am i being played?

[missya]

Is she trying take the P*ss?, seriously count your lucky stars that shes done this or she might have fooled you back into a relationship and you may have actually ended up fathering a child with her. You don't want to mix with that gene pool, how she thinks anyone would be fooled by those attempts is beyond a joke. One look at the box she got the tests from would have shown her that they are supposed to be fine lines either pink or blue but maybe she has poor eyesight along with poor judgement.
Sounds like you have had a lucky escape, good luck.

[SugarDust]

I agree with everyone!

Get as far away from here as possible!

she doesn't seem all together there!

[~shazz~]

does this doctor have his own practise ??? cause when i googled his name he came up as a doctor of emergency medicine in a hospital. ( i didn't think they class having a pregnancy confirmed as a emergency )

[~StarBright~]

Oh, Shaz, go the research!!!!!

I have been lurking waiting for another update from Josh.. i wonder how things are going? I am hooked to this story now i want to know whats happening!!

[Maybe_played]

ok guys a little update:

got a text from Mel saying "gimme a call when u knock off work i got some results for you" so i gave her a call where she sounded really upset and after some coaxing i got from her that she went to the doctors today and they said that shes pregnant.

anyway yesterday i asked her to organise a letter from the doctor to be available for me to pick up from the clinic, and today she said she had such letter but they refused to keep it at the practise (i'd have thought if they didnt keep it there, they'd mail it out) anyway she said that she possessed the letter.

so i high-tailed it to her place after work to receive this letter... a block from her place i found mel was walking so i pulled over she hopped in the car. she was very upset and crying and she said that the mother had ripped up this letter...

she handed me a bunch of torn paper so i went thru it and i was able to decipher her name and address and 'Serum hCG" and on the back of one of the bits of paper was written 'positive'.

so anyway i took mel back to her place to find out why her mother torn up this paper. mel and her mum nearly had a punch on, and i grabbed mel and got her to calm down which resulted in her running away throwing her sunnies on the concrete and declaring her hate for her mother...

so i talked to her mum and discovered that at the doctors they did a urine test which the doctor reported as 'inconclusive' and ordered a 'serum hCG blood test'.

so after my very long winded story, my summary is:
-the docs pee test was inconclusive
-there was a blood test ordered, but mel chickened out (scared of needle lol)
-her mum ripped up the pathology request for the blood test (didnt really get a reason for that)
-i have no idea why 'positive' was written on the back of the pathology request form. a doctor wouldnt record any test result on such a form i imagine.
-mel still thinks shes pregnant, and i've done my best to encourage her to get this blood test as it's very important.

so i'm still hanging in limbo here... but all i can do is wait.. hopefully she gets a duplicate tomorrow.
i said that i would go with her to the pathology for the blood test to help her. (lol i told her to not even look at the needle... just close eyes!)

Sincerely,
Josh

[Lisa]

Hmmm... well, I had a positive HPT, then I got a neg HPT at the Dr's, then another 2 postives HPT's at home, then a neg at the hospital, but my hCG levels kept increasing, so it looked as though I was pregnant... in the end I miscarried, but it was after loads of BT's and ultrasounds. So perhaps she is going through something similar... but the fake HPT's were a bit bizarre.
I hope everything is going to turn out ok.

[fionas]

So was her mum in the room with her in the doctor's surgery and is she confirming what Mel said?

Stating the obvious, I think you just have to get her to do the blood test even if it means frogmarching her down to the pathology place.

[StrawberryMumma]

Oh Josh, far out, what a stressful situation!

Surely she's not pregnant, but maybe she has really convinced herself that she is.

If she missed a period in March (I think that's what you have said) then you would think that even a doctors wee test would show a good strong positive. If you guys haven't been DTD since March then I bet she has been off with other fellas trying to get UTD.

Hope you're able to sort this out soon.

[LimeSlice]

You don't want to mix with that gene pool,

rotfl...sooo true!!

So She is drinking grog and getting into punch ons with her mother...?? riiight!
Im guessing then that these people are not to be trusted with spray cans?

I think next Dr appt you should go with her, and ask the dr straight out.
Otherwise, if you cant get a definitve answer then leave her to it. If she is pg then get a paternity test done down the track. If she got pg in March (or feb) then you wont have long to wait before she shows. Are he boobs getting any bigger/fuller? How is she with raw meat and cooking fat?
Do you have any wheat laying around - you could get her to pee on that? lol

Anyway, I hope for you sake and for that child that she isnt pregnant!

[Aimz]

There are too many factors here saying that she is lying through her teeth. I don't believe a word of it!

[*charmalea*]

Do you have any wheat laying around - you could get her to pee on that? lol!

what happens if im pregnant and i pee on wheat ?????

could you pay for an ultrasound for her .....it may be alot of $$ in one go but its going to show a definate yes or no if theres 3 mth fetus in there ....

[Kitt3n]

[quote=*charmalea*;1260194]what happens if im pregnant and i pee on wheat ?????
quote]

that is how the egyptians used to do a pregnancy test!!

i started a thread about it but i dont know how to attach it to a post - check under a search for "historical pregnancy"...... i found it very interesting!

[*charmalea*]

hehe just googled it , some of the stories are outrageous !!!

some one commented they should test the therioes (sp) on myth busters ...

ok hijack over ... back to you josh