How does the cleaning get done if I don't do it? The cleaning fairy hasn't visited me yet. And sometimes it does need to be done. We all need clean clothes to wear, dishes to eat off, safe floors to play on, hygienic bathrooms to groom in. And I want to play with my children. I don't want to clean while you do it.
What I will say if my DD ever says something like this to me is...'Where the hell is your husband/partner and why doesn't he clean the house if it needs cleaning??'